My first guest to Loving Life is Kate Scott-Dyer, a professional dog trainer and animal behaviourist for 15 years, who talks about our dogs (and cats) after Lockdown, a topical and important subject as the world moves forward from this difficult and strange time we’ve all been living through.
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Welcome, Katie, and over to you…
DOGS AFTER LOCKDOWN – WILL THEY MANAGE WITHOUT YOU?
It’s been a really long time since lockdown began, some of you may have been home all this time, some even longer and your dogs and cats have gotten used to extended periods with someone home. How will they manage when you suddenly go back to work and normal life? How will you manage? What is normal anyway?!
With lockdown restrictions being lifted for most people, the return to normal working patterns can also raise the issue of your dog or cat feeling anxiety at being separated from you. And as you are only human, you may be feeling anxiety at this time too.
But I have to work, Katie, what can I do for my dog?
Great question and I’m so glad you asked. This might be more complicated than it seems so I’ll keep it short.
If you are yet to return to normal work patterns, let’s put some plans in place to help your dog or cat now to ease the transition.
Self-settle practice is a good way to start and how this is achieved will depend on individual dog personalities and preferences.
Start weaning yourself from your dog, being mindful of doing this at your dog or cat’s level of comfort. I can’t over-emphasise this enough, go slowly.
Seek professional advice if you are unsure of how to achieve this, it’s always better to get help now rather than wait until the problem is worse.
If you have already gone back to work and your dog or cat is experiencing feelings of frustration or anxiety with you no longer being home, then seek professional help as soon as possible.
This may seem like an obvious thing for me to say but, honestly, there is no shame in reaching out. Professionals want to help you, be it veterinary or animal or human behaviour professionals. We seek to work collaboratively with you to help you and your dog or cat feel better.
Animals sense our emotions and affect them behaviourally and emotionally too, likewise we can be emotionally affected by our pet’s behaviours. Let’s all help each other have good mental health.
A secret between you and me – I know some people have enjoyed the non-social aspect of lockdown, so it’s all subjective as to how we have coped with restrictions in place for our safety. I admit I have liked my own personal space not being invaded as well as my dogs’ personal spaces not being invaded by off-lead dogs but, having asthma, I have been particularly mindful of staying safely away from other dog walkers even though it has frustrated my dogs as well myself. We are dog and people friendly but avoided people rather than risk breaking social distancing rules.
What things worry you most about post lockdown and your dog?
Thank you, Katie, for those great tips there. And readers, if you have any worries about your pets post lockdown do get in touch with Katie, either by contacting her direct, or leaving a comment below.
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